How to Fix a Sexless Marriage without Therapy, Pills, or Pressure
Most people think that to fix a struggling relationship, they need to work harder—have more talks, schedule more time, dissect the issues. But here’s the truth: that’s not intimacy. That’s exhausting.
You can’t talk your way to a great relationship any more than you can talk your way to a championship game. You need a playbook. A practice. A rhythm. That’s where real intimacy begins.
Hi, I’m Amy Color, your intimacy coach. I became the help my husband and I couldn’t find. After living the cycle of good intentions and poor results, I created real-world solutions for real intimacy—because connection isn’t just emotional or physical. It’s chemistry. It’s a team sport.
That’s why I created the Intimacy Game Plan—a step-by-step system that helps couples go from feeling like exhausted co-managers to becoming real teammates again. No therapy. No pills. No pressure. Just practical, repeatable rituals that bring you back to “us.”
Why "Working on It" Makes It Worse
When couples “work on it,” they often fall into cycles of conflict, analysis, and disappointment. Imagine a team that never plays a game—just meets every week to argue about locker room chores. Sound familiar?
Without a shared practice, relationships stall. You feel like you’re trying, but never connecting. You stop feeling the love. You stop making the love. You start drifting from partners to roommates.
But here’s what I see every day: two people who want the same thing—love, intimacy, connection. They’re just stuck in a loop with no shared strategy.
You Don’t Need More Talks—You Need a Practice
Intimacy doesn’t just happen. It’s built from shared experiences, regular rituals, and emotional safety. That’s why even pro athletes have a coach, a practice schedule, and games to look forward to.
In the Intimacy Game Plan, we start with a tool called The Huddle—a small but powerful moment where you slow down, tune in, and rebuild that “us” feeling without pressure or performance.
No awkward talks. No forced sex. Just connection, one moment at a time.
Want More “Us”? Start Here
You’re not benched because the love is gone. You’re benched because no one taught you how to practice intimacy. That’s what I teach. That’s what the Game Plan offers.
So if you’re tired of “working on it” and want to feel like a team again, start here:
Let’s go from roommates to playmates—together.
👉 Download the Intimacy Game Plan
