The Intimacy Game Plan™
The Relief Lab:
Real Intimacy for Women in Midlife
A FREE private, women’s only community.
Relief from pressure, confusion, and effort — whether you’re dating or in a relationship.
EMPOWER YOURSELF WITH THE NEW PROGRAM
Midlife. Not back to who you were—but forward to who you are.
Starts: Thursday, January 29, 2026
The Intimacy Relief Plan for Women in Midlife
Intimacy is a skill.
This time it’s for you.
You want a satisfying relationship and love life.
You want to feel confident and desired.
Maybe intimacy feels confusing now — the world, your life, your body, your energy, and your libido are different now.
Nobody told you what to expect — let alone how to navigate it all.
Whether you’re in a relationship or dating again:
You’re craving connection, love, and satisfaction — but unsure where to start
You’ve tried therapy and working on it — and still feel stuck
Your life and body have changed — and so has your relationship to pleasure
The Intimacy Relief Plan for Women in Midlife is for those who want:
✔️ A safe space with someone who clarifies biology, psychology, and men
✔️ A better relationship — or better experiences
✔️ A love life that feels playful, not pressured
✔️ To feel sexy and safe — in the body you live in now
✔️ Tools that work in your real life, not just in theory
You don’t need more advice, analysis, or another thing to do.
You need real skills, new strategies, and support that actually works.
What Makes This Different?
This is not therapy or a vague “self-love” course.
The Intimacy Relief Plan for Women in Midlife gives you proven tools that work — even if you're exhausted, uncertain, or out of practice.
✔️ Tools and strategies supported by science
✔️ Designed for women navigating desire after 40
✔️ Private, live, and respectful
✔️ Works whether you're solo, dating, or partnered
You Don’t Have To Figure This Out Alone.
What We Cover: Week by Week
Week 1 – Connection You Can Feel
Experience reconnection with yourself — and your partner.
Practice: The Huddle (how, why, when)
Week 2 – Your Desire, Your Way
Understand how your libido works now — and how to make it work for you.
Practice: Lower Lightbulb Technique
Week 3 – TBD
Real-time coaching, strategy, and support for your specific experience.
Week 4 – Feeling The Desire
A sensual way to initiate slows down your mind and body (and his).
Practice: Starting Move + Scarf Technique
Week 5 – Being Heard, Really
No more holding it in. Speak in a way he can hear you — without over-explaining, shrinking, or avoiding.
Practice: ABCD’s + EGPG Tools
Week 6 – Feel Sexually Confident
Practical tools and sensual techniques for physical intimacy at whatever level is comfortable for you.
Practice: Pleasure skills: hand, oral, and the oral-free technique
Week 7 – TBD
Real-time coaching, strategy, and support for your specific experience.
Week 8 – Make It Last
How to keep your intimacy thriving.
Practice: Your real plan for your real life
This Is For You If:
You’re in a relationship or dating and intimacy feels off — or nonexistent
You’re not sure how to navigate desire, safety, or boundaries
You feel disconnected from your body, your pleasure, or your voice
You’re tired of trying to want it, manage it, or figure it out
You don’t need to explain. This space was made for you.
Some women come with low desire.
Others come with a high desire — but don’t know what to do with all that energy.
Many are managing hers (and his) health issues, habits, hormonal shifts, trauma, pain, shame, or just feel disconnected — with or without a partner.
This Is Not:
✘ Therapy (though I am a certified couples, sex, and trauma therapist)
✘ Sex Ed 101 (think relational intelligence 40+)
✘ A place to fix your partner — or yourself
These things are private and you will not be asked to overshare.
We focus on skills that help you feel grounded, prepared, and ready for intimacy — on your terms.
FAQs
What if I’m not dating or partnered?
That’s ok. Intimacy is a life-time skill. Everything I teach is rooted in your relationship with yourself first. And many of the tools work with or without a partner.
What if my partner’s not on board?
They don’t have to be. These tools are for you. And your shift creates the change.
What if I’ve tried everything?
You haven’t tried this. I created this because I could see the void. Intimacy isn’t another conversation or a pill. It’s a personal skill and a relationship is a team skill.
My method, tools, and techniques are proven, tested, supported by science, and designed for real life — not ideal circumstances.
What if I don’t want to talk about it anymore?
You don’t have to. This is a new way, a new practice, with permission and strategy for new experiences.
Is this process uncomfortable?
It’s a lot less uncomfortable than therapy. Intimacy is vulnerable — especially if you haven’t had the space to explore it before. But the process itself is designed to feel safe, clear, and doable. I teach in a way that’s grounded, gentle, and respectful of your pace. You’ll never be pushed to overshare or go beyond what feels right for you.
The Intimacy Relief Plan for Women in Midlife
Live Experience
💥 Introductory Offer: $1000
(Regular value: $2500)
You’ll get:
✔️ 8 Weekly Live Labs
✔️ 8 Weekly Locker Rooms for Q&A, strategies, and support
✔️ Private, women-only community
✔️ Edited replays for full privacy
We start Thursday, January 29, 2026
Join anytime and catch up with replays.
Empower Yourself with the New Program
Relief is closer than you think.
Meet Your Coach, Amy Color
Hi, I’m Amy Color. I became the help my husband and I needed but couldn’t find.
I bridge the gap between men and women clarifying what intimacy is and how it actually works — biologically, psychologically, and relationally — especially in midlife, when desire, energy, and connection shifts.
My approach goes beyond traditional therapy and medical solutions, offering real emotional connection and physical intimacy skills that are usable in real life.
For over 25 years, I’ve coached people in real intimacy, sex, tantra, and relationship skills. My work is proven, practical, based in science. Real solutions to feel present, confident, loved and connected — with themselves and in their relationships.
Amy Color is dedicated to helping people feel loved and truly seen. Known as the "Best Intimacy Coach," sharing powerful insights through her TEDtalk and bestselling book. Amy created a solutions-based method that works for both men and women. Her direct, revolutionary approach, use of analogy and humor make intimacy easy to implement.
