Stop Letting Porn Affect Your Relationship (Copy)
When it comes to intimacy, we all need support. So you go to therapy. You talk to your doctor. But what if that still leaves you feeling stuck—maybe even worse?
Here’s what most people don’t realize: intimacy isn’t built by talking about it. It’s created in the private, quiet moments between you.
I’m Amy Color, your intimacy coach. And I became the help my husband and I couldn’t find.
We went to therapy. We talked to doctors. We tried it all—and we ended up arguing more about what came up in therapy than the reason we went. One therapist even suggested divorce. Can you imagine?
The truth is, traditional therapy can often amplify the pain. It focuses on communication—but 97% of communication is nonverbal. You don’t need more analysis. You need connection.
Couples therapy rehashes problems, revisits trauma, and can leave you more entrenched in blame, shame, or exhaustion. Labels like “desire discrepancy disorder” don’t help—they pathologize what's actually normal: two people with different needs, moods, and libidos.
Sex therapy often offers generic tools like date nights and massages. But if you could give each other a massage on demand, you wouldn’t be in therapy.
That’s why I created The Intimacy Game Plan—a step-by-step practice that rebuilds emotional and physical closeness without therapy, pills, or pressure.
This isn’t woo-woo. It’s science-backed and soul-forward. I’ve spent over 20 years studying biology, neuroscience, Tantra, and relationship dynamics—because I needed to understand how we’re wired for connection.
My tools are simple. Real. Repeatable.
Like The Huddle—a private, wordless moment that reconnects you instantly. Or the Hero Hold, which drops defenses and gets you on the same page, emotionally and physically. I teach couples how to talk about vulnerable topics with ease using the ABCs of communication. I help men with stamina, confidence, and control. I guide women into their own pleasure and permission.
And I do it all as your coach—not your referee.
You don’t need a perfect past or a perfect partner. You need a plan, a practice, and a guide who sees both of you.
If you’ve ever felt like roommates instead of partners or lovers, it’s not too late. Download the FREE Intimacy Game Plan and start huddling tonight. Or talk to me and apply for the full program.
Because you deserve to feel safe, loved, and connected—not just on paper, but in your skin. Intimacy is your skill. Pleasure is your practice. And connection is the cure.
Let’s build it—together.
