THE SITUATION
When Paul came to me for help he was at his wits end, tired of begging Cathy for sex. She was avoidant (aka busy) he was needy (aka sex starved). Although they loved each other they both felt lonely.

CHALLENGE
They tried counselling but talking was not addressing their lack of intimacy. And prescribed date nights felt empty. They still didn't know what to do once they got home. Cathy loved being intimate with him but was raised to think of sex as dirty. Paul didn't know what to do, so he turned to watching porn which only left him feeling guilty. Paul resisted going outside of his marriage for sex. He didn't want a divorce but the rejection and her lack of desire were taking a toll on his self esteem.

GOAL
They both deeply desired a secure relationship where they could feel like they are enough for each other, happy, loved and trust that they will grow old together.

SOLUTION
They joined The Intimacy Game Plan. They stopped talking and learned how to show up for each other. The learned to initiate wordlessly, express their moods and desires by simply using a candy dish and a scarf. Knowing their starting positions and having a routine makes them intimate partners able to give and receive love by learning to make love together.

OUTCOME
Now Paul and Cathy are on the same page at the same time every time.

Paul: You took me from hopeless to satisfied. The best part is knowing she is into it.
Cathy: I always wanted to know this stuff. The best part is our connection using the candy dish and the scarf.